Pre Wedding
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Astrologers
Bachelor Party
Barber
Bridal Shower
Catering
Event Manager
Exercise
Jewellers
Laser Hair Removal
Legal
Registry
Stationary
Astrologers
Many Asian customs rely on the Zodiac calendar where horoscopes serve as a link between God and man. An auspicious time and date is chosen by the astrologer or pundit for your wedding so that the union is successful. You can choose your astrologer from the vendor list.
Bachelor Party
Need help organizing the final bash for your buddy’s wedding? Whether it’s a small gathering of friends or a more elaborate display, with careful attention to detail we can help you create an unforgettable bachelor party. See the vendor listing for ideas.
Barber
Planning ahead for yourself is the only way to ensure you will look and feel great for your big day. Don't be afraid to experiment beforehand to find the look you want. That is the only way to ensure your comfort and confidence. You may want to seek advice from professionals in the field of hair design, make-up, nails, skin and body, and hair removal.

Hair. Maintaining your hair is something that you should not forget during the planning process. Seeing your stylist regularly will ensure that your hair stays healthy, shiny and manageable. If you prefer a short hairstyle, then you should trim it keeping your timeline in mind. Give yourself time to let your hair grow. Try to avoid using hot irons or tools so that your hair has a chance to heal. You may want to try a deep conditioning treatment for maintenance.
Coloring or adding highlights to your hair may add flattering touches to your overall look. These subtle touches will show in your photos. If you want to perm or permanently straighten your hair, consider the effect it will have on your wedding day photos.
You will also need to keep in mind the hairstyle you want to have during the ceremony and reception. Look through magazines and clip pictures that you like. When you go for your hair consultation, take the pictures with you so that your stylist will get a sense of your style.
Consider what jewellery items you will be wearing and how that will affect your updo. Most brides wear tikkas or daminis to adorn their foreheads. If the piece is quite large, it will have to sit on top of your hair, which may either be pulled back or have a center parting. If it is a small and delicate one, you can have any hairstyle you desire and weave the tikka underneath the hair above your forehead. Be sure to take your tikka with you for your consultation.
You can also have your hair decorated with flowers for a natural look. Rhinestones are sure to dazzle and shimmer in the light during your reception party. You may also want to try a tiara. Afterall, you are a princess for a day. For more traditional items, such as a pirandha, the hairstyle you choose may need to be kept more traditional and should match your overall look for the day. Keep in mind that your hair accessories should not detract attention away from your face.

Bridal Shower
Legend has it that the bridal shower custom began centuries ago when the daughter of a wealthy merchant fell in love with a poor boy from the village, much to the dismay of her father who refused to pay her dowry. The townspeople decided to “shower” the couple with gifts to help them prepare for their newly wedded life. It is not unusual for the bridesmaids to take the bride for a fun night out on the town. For more information on how throw a bridal shower, please see the vendor listing.
Catering
You should look into hiring the services of a professional caterer, unless you plan on taking care of the delicate issue of food yourself. Considering the number of people invited to your ceremony and reception, it seems like the best route to go. Many large banquet facilities require you to use their in-house catering services because of the food-handling restrictions. Things to consider when booking a caterer are quality, head count, budget, and menu.

Quality. The food will make or break your reception party. You need to find a trustable caterer that will exceed your expectations and plan for contingencies. It is best to sample the food ahead of time so that you have plenty of time to decide which dishes work for you. Don't be afraid to ask a friend about the reputation of the catering service. When you meet your caterer, you should get a menu to help you plan, and at least a business card. If they are not organized during the first meeting, it may be a sign of things to come in the future.

Head Count. It is best to understand how caterers generally bill their clients. Give the caterer an estimated guest count from your guest list for an original quote. From there, it is easier to budget and choose a menu. You will need to finalize the head count for the caterer and provide an estimated number at least one week prior to the wedding day.

Budget. The head count and the menu are the two key things that will help you decide how much to spend on catering. Most caterers are creative and can work wonders with large crowds and small budgets. When deciding on your budget, keep in mind that although each additional dish may end up costing you more, it is the overall enjoyment of the guests that will give you a memorable function.

Menu. The menu selection can be tricky. A variety of small hors d'oeuvres or appetizers can end up being costly, but if you eliminate them from the menu, your guests may end up bored at the beginning of the reception, not to mention hungry! If this happens, you will find your guests will leave directly after dinner is served and you yourself will not be able to enjoy your reception party.

Every menu begins with 2 to 3 appetizers, 3 to 4 entrees, 2 side dishes, rice, roti or naan, raita, salad, and a selection of desserts. Use the menu worksheet to guide you through the selection process.

Event Manager
A lifetime of wonderful memories will be created if you have a well planned event. Your wedding and reception party should be planned keeping every detail in mind. Since it is almost impossible for anyone to know what to anticipate 9 to 12 months in advance, hiring a professional event coordinator may just save you time and stress. Things to consider are budget, itinerary, scheduling, etiquette, and family concerns.

Budget. Take advantage of the discounts that your event coordinator can provide to you. Because of their past experience with wedding vendors, they already have contacts in place that you would otherwise have to work hard to get. You can save money and time by using reliable vendors.

Itinerary. Since your event coordinator has experience planning weddings, they can easily provide you with a personalized itinerary for your wedding day. This will give you security and assurance to have your day run smoothly.

Scheduling. With so many different tasks being completed simultaneously, it is easy to get distracted. From supervising your receiving line at the ceremony to cueing the music during the reception party, your event coordinator can handle these details. They can also organize the time-line for booking vendors and create a flexible payment schedule that fits your needs.

Etiquette. There are many different types of traditional wedding ceremonies, each with its own special requirements. Your event coordinator can guide you through and give you a better understanding of the different tasks that need to be completed throughout your wedding day. For example, this may include instructions on how to waltz during your first dance or in what order the milni takes place.
Family Concerns. Some families may have concerns about hiring an event coordinator because it is a fairly new concept. A good event coordinator will take the time to build a relationship with both the bride's and groom's family. An alternative to hiring an event coordinator is for you to use the Asian Wedding Planner as a guide or visit www.asianweddings.ca to plan the wedding of your dreams.

Exercise
Every bride dreams of walking down the aisle looking trim and slim. Proper diet and exercise will help you look and feel great. Whether you are looking for yoga, relaxation, a proper diet or a full exercise facility, please see the vendor listing to find out what is right for you.
Jewellers
Jewellery is one of the most essential items in the bride's attire. It is what sets her apart from every other day and every other bride. Jewellery given by parents or family members symbolizes value and trust, something that the bride can keep with her for years to come with the hopes of one day passing it on to her children and grand-children. Guidelines are provided below to help you choose your wedding jewellery, your accessories, and your engagement ring.

Wedding Jewellery. Gold is the most valuable gift that can be bestowed to a bride, as most parents believe. This is why sentimentality is woven into the traditions surrounding the wedding. 22k gold sets are what most parents give their daughters or daughters-in-law. Each set consists of a necklace, matching earrings (sahaare are optional), a tikka, a ring and hand bracelets known as kangans. There are many other variations that are available at your local jeweler. The latest trend is matching costume jewellery with your wedding outfit, for a more affordable option.

Accessories. Other bridal must-haves are bracelets to adorn your hands, called churiyan or churra. Bracelets can be either traditional or fancied up with jewels and gold/silver ornaments, or you can try mixing the two to create the look that is right for you.
Traditionally, the bride carried a coconut to the wedding alter. This coconut has been given to her by her relatives and family members, along with many blessings, and signifies her fertility and happiness in married life. If the coconut falls from a bride's unsteady hands, it is a bad omen. Essentially, the coconut was cut in half and fastened to the bride's bracelets to avoid any mishaps, thus the birth of the kalire. They have now evolved so that the bride can accommodate other accessories, such as a floral bouquet. Kalire can also be either traditional or fancied up with gold thread, beads, or metal chains. It is still acceptable if the bride carries a coconut, such as in many Hindu wedding ceremonies.
Another frill to consider is a tiara. Although many temples may not allow it for the ceremony, the reception party is your night to shine. Be a princess and find the perfect tiara to match your dress, lengha or sari. You may want to try individual jewels instead as a more cost effective option.
The traditional nath has become trendy again. You don't have to pierce your nose in order to wear a nath, many jewellery stores now sell clip-on jewels. You can also try a stick-on bindi, but don't forget to glue it with adhesive, or it may fall off!
Jhanjhara are traditional but still very popular today. And why not? They are a fun and pretty way of dressing up your ankles. Whether you choose to have heavy bells on them, or simply a chain, most brides adorn their ankles and jingle their way down the aisle.

Engagement Ring. Diamonds are a girl's best, right? But are you sure you know exactly what choosing your perfect diamond ring entails? The factors that you need to consider are the setting, cut and shape, colour, clarity, and carat.

Setting. Whether you have chosen your ring from a magazine advertisement or seen one in a store showcase, you must first decide on a setting that you absolutely love. The most popular settings are 10k or 14k in either in white gold or yellow gold. The newest trend in precious metals is platinum. You can choose from a variety of gem stones, but the most traditional is a solitaire, with diamonds.

Cut and Shape. The cut is what determines how much your diamond will sparkle when light is reflected through it. A diamond craftsman uses skill, precision and technique to produce the most delicate diamond that will rest on your finger. The shape you select depends entirely on your personality.

Colour. Colourless diamonds are the most rare and valuable. This is because when light passes through, it is transformed into a beautiful rainbow. The difference in gem diamond colour is very subtle and can be measured by the colour grading system from D to Z. Exceptional diamonds, known as "fancies", are available in pink, yellow or blue, and may be very difficult to find as they are extremely rare.

Clarity. To determine a diamond's clarity, it is inspected under a 10x magnification by a professional. If there are any flaws,it interferes with the passage of light through it. The more flaws, the less clear the diamond and the less valuable it is.The clearer it is, the more valuable it is and the more it will shimmer in the light. Clarity is measured on a scale of classifications where IF, VVS1 and VVS2 are the most valuable because there are virtually no flaws or imperfections.

Carat.
The weight and size of a diamond is measured in carats. One carat is divided into 100 points. For example, if a diamond is 50 points, it is known as 0.5 carat or half a carat. Remember that size is not the only determining factor for the value of the gem stone.

 

Laser Hair Removal
Feel fresh and clean by getting rid of unwanted hair before your wedding. Methods include threading, waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal. Body areas to consider are face, arms, underarms, bikini, legs, stomach and back. If you have skin sensitivities, go for your initial test patch well in advance to avoid wedding day mishaps. Also inquire about special packages for different body areas.
Threading is very popular, especially for the eyebrows. The fine hair is tweezed by the quick twisting techniques used to maneuver the thread around the eyebrows. Be sure to hold your skin firmly so that it does not get cut between the thread. These cuts may be small, but they are damaging to your skin and may cause wrinkles to form more rapidly if they are not tended to. Waxing is also very popular, especially for arms and legs. The hot wax is applied and quickly peeled off the skin one patch at a time. Although thistechnique may be painful, it is effective. The hair may take up to 8 weeks to grow back, which is why many women prefer this option.
Be careful of the wax being too hot, as it may bruise or burn your skin. Cleanliness may also be a problem if the application tool is not sanitary. It may cause infections even though the temperature of the wax is very high. The last thing you want is an infection that may show your discomfort in your wedding photos.

Electrolysis is a system where heat is transferred through a hair-thin needle which is positioned inside the hair follicle. This heat passes directly into the root of the hair and removes it instantly. This is a highly effective form of hair removal that lasts for quite some time, and in some cases the hair does not grow back at all. Insist on a professional trained in electrolysis because you want to ensure that the procedure is done correctly and the needle and other imlementsor sterile. Laser hair removal is quickly gaining popularity in today's market. This is the latest technology in hair removal where a high powered laser is used on the skin to stun the hair follicle to prevent growth. When a follicle is stunned multiple times, it ceases to grow, which is why it is so effective.

There are different types of lasers used that you should be aware of before you decide which laser technician to choose. Search the internet, read articles and ask various laser technicians the difference between their lasers and how they interact with your skin. Enquire about any company that claims "permanent hair removal", as they have high powered lasers that may be harmful to your skin. On the other hand, if a company practices in a low powered laser, you may have to pay excess amounts of money before you see any results. The intensity of the laser has a lot to do with your hair as well. For example, if you have thick, stubborn hair, the high intensity laser may be better for you.

Most companies offer package rates for certain body parts. This is something that is worthwhile for you to look into, as laser hair removal can get costly. Ensure that you do your research before you decide which laser is the safest for you, your skin, and your hair follicles.

Legal
Getting legal advice before the marriage ceremony is encouraged. Both parties should have separate representation to avoid any conflicts. If you need legal advice on your marriage contract, name change, prenuptial agreement, wills or anything else, please see the vendor listing.
Registry
This is where the fun begins. You have planned almost every detail to do with your wedding, but now you must plan for the rest of your life! After your wedding, you move into your empty nest and are expected to build your life together. The beauty of gift registry is that your friends and family members help you stock up.
If you are wondering whether you should register, you should do it. You guests want to purchase gifts for you and it makes their job easier to know what you want and need. It also saves you time and money from having to return multiple gifts of the same item.
Since there are many pre-wedding parties, you may want to get registered as soon as you are engaged.

Don't wait until the last minute. And don't be afraid to let them know about where you have registered. You should tell your wedding party where you have registered so that they can inform others.
You may want to register at more than one location. This will give your guests variety to purchase what they want for you. You may want to confirm if some of your registries are online to make it easier for your guests. Ensure that you have high and low price items.
Register for gifts that you think you will both enjoy. Begin by thinking about the style you both like and make a list of all of the categories. You should include furniture, bedding, accessories, electronics, dishware, glassware, cookware, flatware, kitchen gadgets, linens, or anything else you feel you need. Enquire about the exchange and refund policy.
You don't want to ruin your honeymoon worrying about returning gifts as soon as you get back.

Stationary
Your invitations are the first thing that your guests will see regarding your special event. Whether it is your wedding invitations, reply cards, thank-you cards, or place setting cards, your stationary should reflect the style and theme you have chosen for your wedding and should also remain uniform throughout the festivities. Please see the vendor listing for more ideas on stationary.
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